Ok guys- I'm gonna make this short and sweet (cause that's how I like it). This goes out to all the single men that say you fear rejection and don't know how to ask a woman out. Or likewise drag out every conversation you have with her talking about everything under the sun but what you really want to say to her. Please stop the pleasantries and get on with it. Be honest, be straight forward and ask her out. I promise that the end result will not be devastating and could right possibly result in a positive earth shattering "yes". I know I'm asking a lot, this frustration does not come unwarranted. If I could lend you my confidence I would but some time the "balls" are literally in your court.
Good luck out there.
- me
2 comments:
I love it! And I totally agree! What is so wrong with a little confidence? Don't they realize that if you're giving them the time of day, that you're most likely interested in a date, and will probably say yes if asked? I mean come on. How much flirting and subtle hints, hair tossing and arm touching does it take?? Geez.
It's hard to follow up the last guy, but I feel duty-bound as a guy to respond to your blog.
Guys are not always hesitant because of a gripping fear or because they are totally unaware of what's going on.
I can pinpoint exactly where I was standing when I got shot down by a girl, one who had done the hair-tossing, eye-batting all-out flirtations.
Still, I fear not. I feel confident that I will be able to step up when compeled and when I don't it's usually not from a lack of intestinal fortitude. It's usually because I just don't know a female well enough yet.
Just as a few women giving mixed signals give women a bad rap, it appears that a few clueless, gutless guys has led to the assumption that a much larger segment is similar in lack of intellect and fear.
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